I HAVE A CRUSH ON GIRLFRIEND’S SEXY STEPMUM

Dear Coleen

My girlfriend and I are both 21 and have a good relationship. The only problem is, I’ve started to really fancy her stepmum, who is only 29 – a lot younger than her dad.

Whenever I’ve been at their house, I get on really well with her stepmum – we have a laugh together and she pays me a lot of attention. I should also say, she’s pretty hot.

I’m confused because I love my girlfriend, but I can’t stop thinking about her stepmum and imagining what it would be like if we were together. What should I do?

Coleen says

Um, let me think about this for a second – nothing! Look, you get on, you have a laugh, you’ve got a big crush on her, but don’t take it any further. She’s married and you’re in a relationship with her stepdaughter – I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that’s a line you don’t cross unless you want to bring a whole lot of drama and heartache into your life.

Plus, you don’t even know if this woman likes you in that way. Just because she has a laugh with you doesn’t mean she fancies you and wants to leave her hubby!

It’s normal to find other people attractive, even if you’re in a loving relationship – that’s human nature – so don’t be freaked out by it. However, if you’re worried you might act on these feelings or it’s getting uncomfortable, then don’t go over to her dad’s place. Focus on your relationship and work out if it’s your girlfriend you’re really interested in – or her stepmum!