Can’t stop thinking of my ex while hubby’s abroad

have to be careful that you’re not simply romanticising your ex and those carefree days in high school.

I think you should wait until your husband is home before doing anything.

You seem to have a made a lot of rash decisions, so make this one much more considered and give it some time. You’re not a high school girl any more – you’re married and you owe it to your partner to see what things are like when he’s back.

You might find it rekindles the romance but, if it doesn’t, then at least you can talk to him face to face to explain how you feel.

And, in the meantime, don’t start anything with your ex – it’s not fair on your husband and it’ll only confuse you even more.

Also, have a think why it is all your friends and family don’t like your ex. I realise when you’re young, that kind of opposition can make you more defiant, but they might have really good reasons.