Avoiding a Battle Royale
KIDS are going crazy for computer game Fortnite – but that’s leading to rows in homes across the country over the amount of time spent on it.
Siobhan Freegard, founder of parenting site ChannelMum.com, said: “As the mother of a teen boy, I understand exactly what you’re going through.
“Fortnite is the biggest kids’ gaming phenomenon of the decade, so there are always going to be some children whose use is over the top.
“Banning it altogether will cause a ‘Battle Royale’ in your home, so the key is to stay calm and look at it first from your son’s point of view.
“Fortnite has become so hugely successful because it’s a social game. Unlike old-style video games, which pit players against the console, Fortnite allows up to 100 people to play together, with classmates or children from a local area all working as a team.
“If you ban him from the game, he’ll feel excluded from this social group – and that’s very upsetting when you’re only 14.”
Siobhan reckons playing Fortnite isn’t all bad.
She added: “On the positive side, our research found that three in five parents said playing Fortnite has improved their child’s hand-eye coordination, while a third admit it’s boosted their child’s confidence.
“So don’t alienate your son by rubbishing what he loves. Instead, talk to him at a quiet time and say you can see the benefits and you’re happy for him to play occasionally – but his use must be sensible.
“I’d recommend ensuring he plays within sight and earshot of you, so you can monitor the time he spends on the game – or set a timer so he knows when he has to come off and stick to it.
“There will be rows at first, but it’s better than trying to ban him altogether and see him flout your authority.”
Siobhan also thinks it’s worth turning your child’s love of the game to your advantage.
She said: “Get him to do chores to earn cash for ‘V-bucks’, the game’s e-currency.
“And if he behaves well or achieves in school, reward him with extra time on the game.”
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