Coleen says

START putting yourself and your needs first. I’d get it if you’d been seeing each other for eight weeks but, to be brutally honest, if she’s behaving like this eight years down the line, then I suspect you’re totally wasting your time.

She’s treating you like a secret or a bit on the side – she’s not taking the relationship as seriously as you are.

Clearly, your expectations are very different and you need to have a frank discussion about