Dear Coleen

HE REFUSES TO DISCUSS HIS AFFAIR

RECENTLY, I found out through a friend that my husband had been seeing another woman and it’s since emerged he has had a baby girl with her.

I confronted him and he eventually came clean but begged for forgiveness and I’ve decided to see if we can work through it.

It’s hard because I’m angry and hurt and he refuses to discuss it.

I believe it’s all over with this woman but he says he has a responsibility to the child and I’ve agreed he should see her. However, our teenage kids have taken it really badly and I don’t think they want anything to do with their sibling. They can barely look at him.

I don’t think I can move on unless he talks openly about the affair and answers all my questions but he walks out every time I bring it up.