Stella J Kemp, Kent

Regarding the woman who aims to keep her pregnancy secret from her ex, the baby’s father, (Dear Coleen, Nov 25) – she has no right to expect family and friends to keep quiet too.

You can’t keep a baby secret and it’s only a matter of time before the dad finds out anyway.

If she’s determined to go it alone that’s her choice, but her ex deserves to know and have the option of being involved in the child’s life.