I DON’T do sex on a first date. I have to see a guy five times before I even think about going to bed with him.
Unfortunately my female friends think this is weird, while the last three guys I’ve dated have accused me of being frigid and cold.
One even accused me of being a time-waster after I bought him a drink and he confessed that he still lived at home with his parents! JANE SAYS: You’re an individual and you are fully entitled to make your own rules.
Don’t feel forced to change for anyone. Trust your instincts, stick to your guns and tell your female friends that you’re no lemming.
Point out that as you don’t judge them, then you don’t expect them – or anyone else – to judge you.