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I THOUGHT having sex with my female boss would be a bit of fun.
But now the bitch is making my life hell.
Sleeping with her is amazing and our sex life sizzles – but being with her in the office is a nightmare.
Basically, she’s especially hard on me so that no-one suspects we’re having a fling.
Even when I do something good, she has to make a sarcastic remark and then humiliate me.
The other day I clinched an amazing deal which will result in a big payout for the company. Yet she totally destroyed me in the boardroom.
I’m ashamed to say that I lost my rag but she just laughed. The more I show PRESS 1 for GENERAL COUNSELLING for all personal and relationship difficulties PRESS 2 for SEXUAL GUIDANCE for all men’s and women’s intimate problems weakness, the more she crushes me. Colleagues tell me to toughen up and start fighting back. But I’m just not like that. JANE SAYS: Sadly you’ve discovered that it’s never a good idea to mix business with pleasure. You thought sleeping with your boss would be a hoot, but you’ve discov- BIG brothers eh? But Alex just wants what is best for you. And he’s right.
You don’t know Brandon very well and it could be that he follows a pattern of getting girls pregnant and then leaving them.
His mum has fallen out with him because of his behaviour and who can blame her? Alex is right in not wanting you to be Brandon’s next victim.
But you’ve only been going out with Brandon for a few weeks and it may be he was planning to tell you about his children when he felt the time was right. On the other hand, it could all be a hoax and Brandon planted the made-up letters to see if he could trust you.
But until you confess to Brandon that you found the letters and read them there’s no way of getting at the truth. Brandon will be furious and accuse you of snooping but you weren’t deliberately prying.
If there’s a future for you both you’ll have to ask him to come clean about his past. Until then, put the relationship on hold.
And make sure you don’t get pregnant, just in case it’s all true. ered that she’s got claws and takes pleasure in drawing blood.
You must end this charade for the sake of your own sanity and self-respect. Tell her you can’t cope with being stroked one minute and eaten alive the next.
Either she’ll accept that your affair has gone too far or she’ll yell at you to get out. Whatever happens, do not allow yourself to be bullied any longer, and speak to your union rep or contact ACAS (acas.org.uk) if you feel you’ve been badly treated.