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I NEVER meant to get pregnant by my neighbour lover.

But a bout of gastroenteritis stopped my contraceptive pill from working, and now I’m nine weeks gone.

He’s married and not interested in another baby as his kids are in their teens.

I’ve always wanted a child so I’m desperate to keep this one, but I don’t know how to square it with my boyfriend, considering that he and I never have sex. My lover says I should pretend I’ve deliberately paid for artificial insemination, but is my boyfriend really going to believe that?

My fella is a difficult man to love. He’s moody and unpredictable, but he’s not stupid. Even though he isn’t interested in making love to me, I know he’ll go completely nuts if he discovers that I’ve been with someone else. PRESS 1 for GENERAL COUNSELLING for all personal and relationship difficulties PRESS 2 for SEXUAL GUIDANCE for all men’s and women’s intimate problems

JANE SAYS: If you’re determined to keep this baby, then I suggest you forget any idea of duping your boyfriend into thinking that you’ve had professional help in getting pregnant.

Own up and tell him the truth. The fact is that you’ve been an absolute idiot, but he deserves to hear what the score is.

Perhaps he’ll stay and support you, or perhaps he’ll walk away. But keeping secrets is never a good idea.

You also need to look at the reasons why you felt tempted to cheat in the first place. The reality is that you now need all the support and love you can muster from friends and family.

Despite what your child’s father thinks, he can’t avoid his financial responsibility. In an ideal world he’ll have a positive, hands-on role too – see if you can all be adults and work towards that.

I’m not pretending the next few months or years are going to be easy, but your child has to be your priority and at the heart of everything you do from now on.

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