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I’VE been having unprotected sex with one of my colleagues for several months.
I’m single and he knows I want to have a baby. He is married, but says his wife doesn’t understand him and they’ll probably divorce next year.
At first our arrangement was purely financial. I give him £30 every time he has sex with me. But now I find myself falling for him. We’ve agreed he won’t be involved in any resulting child’s life – he won’t give his surname or pay any money.
But the more intimate time I spend with him, the more I find myself fantasising about a possible future life together. Is that crazy?
I daren’t tell him that I might love him, because he won’t take it well. PRESS 1 for GENERAL COUNSELLING for all personal and relationship difficulties PRESS 2 for SEXUAL GUIDANCE for all men’s and women’s intimate problems
JANE SAYS: You’re having regular sex with a married colleague because you’re desperate for a child, but with sex often comes an emotional attachment.
Every time you are intimate with this man another little piece of you warms to him. But the at the end of each sexual encounter you hand him £30 and he returns to his wife. He may tell you she doesn’t understand him and that he’s leaving her, but can you honestly believe anything he says?
Please rethink this plan because I don’t believe it’s healthy or fair on you or any unborn child.
Take a break and look at your options. Bringing up a child on your own is tough.
Have you really thought this through? I’m terrified you’re going to get hurt. Confide in a trusted friend or relative.