Kfid\ek fm\i X Õ`ikp ^`ic

THINGS are very shaky between me and my girlfriend. I love her loads and want us to be together, but she makes everything so hard.

She says she loves me, then goes off with other blokes. We have fantastic sex and then she tells me she doesn’t want to see me for a month because I’m too clingy.

She’s very attractive, but I’ve never felt she’s totally mine. Mutual friends are always warning me that she sends flirty messages and explicit pictures to other men. Yet when I confront her she says I’m too controlling.

My parents adore her because they’re desperate for grandchildren, but they only see the nice side of her. Recently my dad said he’ll never speak to me again if I allow her to slip through my fingers. JANE SAYS: You can’t allow your parents to influence you.

I don’t care how much they want grandchildren, they have no way of knowing what goes on behind closed doors.

I bet they would be devastated to hear how badly you are being treated. You must break away from this difficult woman and start living life on your own terms.

From sleeping with other men to sending explicit images, she’s proved she’s no good for you. She’s not on your side and doesn’t care about your feelings – or your sexual health.

Get yourself checked out with your GP and then give yourself a break from the dating scene.

Tell your parents the truth and insist they drop the subject.

I get the impression this relationship actually fizzled out a long time ago. Will she even notice (or care) when you’re gone?