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ATTENDING a sex party was supposed to be a one-off and a bit of fun.

But now my boyfriend is taking group sex too far.

He’s sleeping around without me and I can’t respect him for it. He’s developed a taste for both men and women and doesn’t care who he ends up with in bed.

He’s confessed that he’s addicted to hot, hard, wild sex and I can’t compete.

We have been together for five years. We were both virgins when we met and made love for the first time with each other.

I could kick myself, as I was the one who pushed him into attending the ticket-only event that my colleague was organising.

His eyes have been opened and he’s just not the same person any more. How could I have been such a fool?

JANE SAYS: Perhaps you have to accept that you and your boyfriend enjoyed five good years together, but now you’ve reached a critical crossroads?

Some couples do meet as virgins and stay together for life – without ever sleeping with anyone else – but maybe you and he are destined for something different?

There’s no denying that buying tickets to an organised sex party was risky and maybe not your best idea ever.

But it could be that you and he were always going to grow apart. Now he’s indulging himself for all he’s worth. He’s gorging on sexual partners and doesn’t care how you feel.

Take yourself out of this situation by telling him that you’re not happy.

Insist on a split so he can do his thing and you can do yours. What you can’t do is beat yourself up because what is done is done – and you need to learn from this.