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I KNEW that my lover was in a relationship when we first met in 2015. I started sleeping with her anyway and assumed that she’d come to me full-time once she was single.

I was so obsessed with her that I bought her gifts and paid for us to visit expensive hotels for sex.

Then, in 2017 I found out (through a mate) that she’d actually left her original boyfriend and had moved in with someone new.

I went crazy. She swore that she planned to tell me but her new fella was linked to her work and if she didn’t sleep with him she’d lose her job.

Stupidly, I carried on seeing her and even lent her £2,000 to pay off a credit card bill.

Now she’s living with a third guy and still expects to see me for sex when she wants. She swears that we will be together one day, but I have to keep the faith because her life is complicated. Just what is going on? JANE SAYS: You have to step back and start acknowledging the fact that this woman is using and humiliating you.

She’s a user and a chancer. Has she ever paid back that £2,000 she owes you? Has she ever actually said “sorry” for all the terrible times she’s put you through?

What you have to do is finally face up to the fact that she is selfish and has no respect for you. She doesn’t care about your feelings or your future.

I’m sure she does love your lap-dog-type devotion, but you can’t allow yourself to be brought down and bankrupted (both emotionally and financially) by someone so cold and shallow.

Force yourself to walk away before you have absolutely nothing left.