She fell asleep in romp

SEX with me is always the last thing on my partner’s list.

After work, dinner and putting the children to bed, we finally crash out at 10.30pm.

She grunts: “Right, let’s go” but neither of us feels like it – or can manage it.

The other night she actually fell asleep as I tried my hardest.

I love her and I adore our children, but sex has dropped off our “to do” list and has stopped being a priority – and that’s sad, isn’t it?

JANE SAYS: It’s fantastic that you’re talking about this.

The next step is to chat to your partner, when you’re both calm and relaxed.

Suggest pencilling in some unbreakable date/sex nights and bring love making back into the spotlight.

Of course the chores have to be done, but you’re allowed to have sex in the day too.

Organise childcare for some future Saturday or Sunday afternoons and reconnect on an intimate level.

She needs to hear that you still desire, love and want her, and that you’re prepared to fight for a little slice of Heaven.