Vape habit is just not ‘cool’
MY partner has started vaping and I can’t stand it. She’s never smoked so it’s not as if she’s moved over to this for health reasons. I’ve begged her to stop but she thinks she looks cool and because all of her friends are now doing it, she doesn’t want to be left out. How do I get her to take me seriously?
JANE SAYS: She needs to decide who is more important – her friends or you? Obviously she can do as she likes, but if you have expressly asked her to stop vaping in your company, and she’s still doing it, then do you have to conclude that she doesn’t care about your feelings? Can a compromise be struck?