Can’t compete in bed
GUY’S EX WAS SO HOT
But what about us? So you’re still with Ellie Oh MY new boyfriend keeps talking about sex with his ex and I’m finding it a real turn-off.
I’m sick of hearing how daring she was when they were together.
More than once he has hinted that I’m a bit frigid for having certain limits.
I want this relationship to work but feel I’m up against it when he’s also guilty of being selfish in bed. He often I managed to calm her down It was such a turn-on Yeah…now let’s stop talking They get passionate I love Ben…but how can I get rid of Ellie? performs like a thrusting porn star and acts as if his orgasm is more important than mine. When I comment on this, he says that his ex never complained.
JANE SAYS: If his former girlfriend was so wonderful, then why did Not for me PRESS 1 It was so exciting pretending I didn’t know you PRESS 2 they break up? Why is he bothering with you when the person who appears to be his soulmate is still out there?
You now need to take time out and stop selling yourself short.
If this guy is too selfish and TALK about having his cake and eating it! Ben has got it made.
He’s got a partner he lives with and you on the side for some exciting sex when he wants it.
He loved the idea of you and Ellie squabbling over him and, whatever happened between him and Ellie when they got home, you can believe he painted a totally wrong picture of you.
I don’t think you are ever going to prise Ben away from Ellie. Why should he leave when he has everything just how he wants it as it is?
You need to get Ben out of your life and find someone who isn’t happy to cheat on their partner to be with you.
Tell Ben to get lost, then concentrate on having a good time.
Eventually you will meet someone who can make you happy. annoying, then just cut your losses and explain to him that this relationship is not working.
Of course, he has a relationship history like most of us, but no-one likes being compared.
Suggest he fully gets over her before dating again, while you find yourself someone far more mature and considerate.