I only get a thrill from sex workers
BUT DAD WANTS ME WED
MY parents are desperate for me to marry. How can I tell them that I’m only turned on by professional sex workers?
Normal girls bore me. I’m not interested in a Caz from accounts or a Tilly from HR.
I crave real women who are streetwise and open-minded.
By paying for my sex life I get precisely what I want. I call the shots and nothing is ever taboo.
If I fancy a three or foursome, then it’s simply a negotiated fee away. I don’t have to think about feelings or consequences.
Naked
If I fly into a new city on business, I know I’ll have my kind of company for the night because I will have organised it online. That’s just the way I roll.
From the age of 16, I was with a girlfriend who my parents adored.
She seemed lovely and they assumed I would marry her, but everything fell apart when I found her in bed with my ex-best friend at my 25th birthday party.
They were naked and writhing on my duvet.
Everything that night.
I vowed never to get romantically involved with anyone ever again – and I’ve stayed true to changed for me that rule. These days I’m pretty successful and consider myself a player and a free spirit.
The problem is that my father is getting on and wants me to take over the family business. I’m happy to do so.
But my parents are old-fashioned and want me to be married before they hand over the reins.
They also believe some of their more established customers would prefer a married boss.
I have nothing against marriage or monogamy but they are not for me.
I’ve been bitten once and now prefer sex on my terms. But how can tell I my parents that? JANE SAYS: You were badly hurt by your sweetheart but you can’t go through the rest of life all bitter and angry.
We all suffer humiliations and heartbreak – that’s part of growing up.
Finding her in your bed with your ex-best mate was horrible but you can’t go on punishing yourself for ever.
What about love, comfort and companionship?
Stop pretending you are such a tough guy and let a little light in.
These sex workers will give you all you pay for but isn’t it a cold, soulless existence? That said, not everyone is the marrying kind and you are entitled to be an individual.
Why don’t you level with your parents?
Tell them you’d be happy to take over the family firm but you won’t be forced into a wedding for the sake of it.
Maybe they’re already aware of your habits.
If they run a successful business then they’re not going to be stupid.
Please just be careful about your sexual and emotional health. You are not a robot and don’t have to behave like one.