Sex life is dead loss
I’M TOLD TO KEEP STILL
Steve comes in to try to make things right
Look, I’m sorry I upset you… but I’d rather you knew the truth
Don’t exaggerate… it really meant nothing… come here
MY boyfriend doesn’t to make any noise or during sex.
There is no foreplay, no sweet nothings and no tenderness.
He literally grabs a tube of lube and goes in for the kill.
Although he’s a funny, smart guy in normal, everyday life, I find his lovemaking most peculiar. More than once like me to move
Get off me… you make me feel sick!
I can’t bear you to touch me… you’re revolting
Don’t be stupid!
I’m really sorry …but when you stop being stupid we can talk
I’ve suggested a warm-up shower and sexy massage and been rejected.
The other night I got so frustrated that I asked him if he’d actually like me to “play dead”.
He replied: “Could you?” And he was terrifyingly serious.
It may have been nothing to you, but you’ve betrayed me and in a horrible way with a stripper
PRESS 1
This is really dreadful… but I can’t bear him near me
PRESS 2
JANE SAYS: It sounds as if your boyfriend has some deep-rooted emotional issues and problems with intimacy.
Stop this torture. If you continue to sleep with him, then you’ll start to resent him and feel ugly and
IT’S very early days and you really need to get your head round what Steve did.
Take your time and have a very serious think about whether his behaviour is something he’s going to repeat or if it’s a one-off.
Steve wants to talk so try to let him have his say. You don’t have to agree with his response, but at least give him a chance to explain.
If you can’t cope with the idea of sleeping with Steve then you must think about splitting up.
But before you take this drastic step have a serious think about what you’d be losing.
Maybe consider some counselling (Relate.org.uk) before ending things. bad about yourself. Tactfully tell him that you need a lot more stimulation and love.
You also need to tell him that he needs professional help.
There’s nothing to stop you from remaining friends, but you can’t settle for terrible sex when you know that this situation isn’t healthy or respectful.