My guy bleeds me dry

MY boyfriend never misses an opportunity to cadge money off me.

Once I was in hospital having my tonsils out.

He came to visit and within five minutes asked me for my debit card so he could withdraw cash.

I said: “No” and he threatened to kick off.

I gave in out of sheer embarrassment. He withdrew £200 and then I had the devil’s own job getting my card back.

He makes out he’s a cheeky chappy, but the more I deal with him, the more I realise he’s an unscrupulous leech.

JANE SAYS: Your charming boyfriend deliberately targeted you when you were vulnerable and weak.

Why are you still bothering with him when he’s clearly only out for himself?

Surely, if anything, this past year has taught us that life is precious and we don’t have to put up with users.

What do your close friends and family think of the way he treats you?

Do they actually know how devious he really is?

Start being honest with them – and yourself – and begin living life on your terms. If nothing else, you’ll be quids in without him bleeding you dry.