He likes us to be watched

MY new boyfriend likes other people watching us when we make love.

During lockdown I’ve allowed him to live-stream our sex sessions. I’ve been convincing myself that out of sight is out of mind.

But now he’s talking about getting his mates over for a proper live show. He’s suggesting I invite some of my friends and have fun.

He has a way of making everything sound reasonable. When I object, I get told I’m a spoilsport.

I’m not sure about this. He’s a lovely guy but I don’t really know who I am any more.

JANE SAYS: Wake up and accept he is not right for you. From filming intimate moments to pushing for sex parties, he doesn’t have your best interests at heart and sounds manipulative to me.

I don’t want to panic you, but you have no way of knowing how that footage is being used or where it’s going.

Then there are his “friends”. What do you know about them? How do you know they will treat you with respect?

I fear you’re vulnerable, so please speak to a trusted relative or friend immediately and remove yourself from his power.