Easily-led son is a plaything

MY son finds trouble. He got in with the wrong school crowd and was a nightmare teenager.

Now he’s 24 and dating a married woman who is rinsing him dry. I suspect she and her husband are playing with him. He attends their outrageous parties at which unsavoury activities take place. Where did I go wrong?

JANE SAYS: Is your son vulnerable? Does he need protecting? Don’t give up on him because he’s your boy and needs someone on his side.

He may exasperate you, but he has to know you’re there for him. Could you speak to this married couple? Has a crime been committed? He needs you to be strong, so hold your nerve.