He likes to act as baby

MY new boyfriend asks me to treat him like a baby at bedtime.

Every Friday night he hops into the bath. I sponge him all over and wash his hair.

After a good towelling, I give him a drink of warm milk and read him a story (Thomas the Tank).

The whole process turns him on like nothing else – and then I’m in for some seriously raw sex.

He’s not unreasonable or dirty – he doesn’t ask for anything seriously kinky, but I find this all rather odd.

The other six days of the week, he’s all man and no trouble at all.

JANE SAYS: It takes all sorts to make a world. Only you can decide if this soapbedroom routine is acceptable to you.

Do you enjoy taking the lead and indulging him?

If you do, fine. But if you don’t, then you and he need to talk.

You must never feel that you’re under pressure to perform.

Ask him if he imagines his demands becoming more extreme – or even kinky – in time.

Is this as far as he wishes to go or only just the beginning?

Set some limits so you know where you stand.