He kept his 2 kids a secret

MY partner has two daughters he never talks about. I had no idea he was a dad when we got together in 2019.

He never mentioned them on our early dates or bothered to contact them during the lockdowns.

They’re in their early twenties. I only found out via a mutual friend. What kind of person denies his kids?

JANE SAYS: Don’t be too quick to judge until you’ve heard the whole story.

Respect this is a complicated subject and ask him to come back to you when he’s ready to talk.

You can’t allow this to come between you. I can’t imagine that the intervening years have been easy for anyone.