I’m harrassed for sex by girl

I’M not ready for sex with the girl I’m hanging out with.

How do I stop her from pushing her hands down my jeans and groping me?

I’ve made it clear I don’t want a sexual relationship. I was badly hurt by my ex-partner and I need time. Yet she thinks seducing me is some kind of challenge.

JANE SAYS: Stop seeing this girl because you can’t give her what she wants and she can’t take no for an answer.

The rules are the same for girls and guys. You’ve told her you’re not interested in sex, so suggest she looks elsewhere. She needs to understand that you won’t be bullied or cajoled.