THREE STRATEGIES TO BUILD YOUR RESILIENCE
AFFECT LABELLING
This is one of several psychological techniques you can use to help diminish the impact of negative emotions, which can make it easier to cope with unavoidable stress. It involves expressing in words, either in writing or out loud, the feelings that you’re experiencing. An analysis published in 2018 of 42,000 tweets supported the effectiveness of this trick. It found that tweets containing a form of affect labelling, such as ‘I feel sad’, tended to be followed in the ensuing hours by tweets from the same person suggesting they were feeling calmer. Dr Golnaz Tabibnia, a neuroscientist at the University of California, Irvine, who studies resilience, adds that affect labelling doesn’t just help in the moment, but can also help in the long-term. She conducted research with her team and found that repeatedly labelling the negative emotions conveyed by distressing images reduced the physiological arousal those same images triggered a week later.
BEST POSSIBLE SELF
This exercise can increase your positive emotions, which in turn can act as a buffer against future stress. “It consists of writing about and envisioning yourself in the future in detail, after everything has gone as well as it possibly could,” says Dr Alba Carrillo, a health psychologist at Massachusetts General Hospital. “Afterwards, spend about five minutes visualising that image in your mind, closing your eyes and activating all your senses while picturing yourself in that future.”
Carrillo was the lead author of a 2019 review that established the efficacy of the ‘best possible self’ (BPS) exercise based on the findings from 29 prior studies involving nearly 3,000 participants. “Precisely in these times, the BPS exercise can be a useful tool to help you to recover – or build – your excitement and hopes about your future,” says Carillo. She adds that if it feels too frustrating to perform now, “you can try to imagine yourself some years from now when things are calmer”.
VALUE-BASED APPROACH
Alongside managing your negative emotions and accentuating your positivity, you can practise accepting adversity and uncomfortable feelings in the spirit of living a value-based life. Grounded in acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), this is about more just following your goals, explains Dr John Donahue, a clinical psychologist based at the University of Baltimore who practises and teaches ACT. “It refers to the quality of our intentions,” he explains. “The coronavirus has reminded us how much our world can quickly change in ways that are beyond our control, though we do have control over our choices in the moment. Can those choices be driven by meaning and importance? In this way, connecting with our values during these times of uncertainty can provide direction when the path forward is foggy.”
Donahue was co-author of a 2019 study that showed how value-based living helped university students remain resilient in the face of stressful life events.