‘My new life makes me feel 10 years younger’
When her husband left, Helen Taylor, from Cheltenham, could have crumbled. Instead, she dusted herself off and started anew.
For 20 years, I lived in Worcestershire and ran a nursery. Then, in 2015, my husband suggested we move to Hampshire to be close to his family. I retired and began what seemed an idyllic life in the countryside. I’d wake up late, walk my dachshunds in nearby fields, and indulge my love of cooking and entertaining.
In early 2017, my perfect life was shattered when my husband ended our marriage after seven years. He said he no longer wanted to be with me. It came out of the blue and I was shocked as well as heartbroken. My three adult daughters from my previous marriage, Holly, Emma and Brooke, rallied around me. I knew I couldn’t stay in Hampshire; there was nothing there for me any more.
Brooke lived in Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, and suggested I move there, too. She even came up with the idea that I should start a housekeeping and canapé business. ‘Take this as a sign, a chance to change your life,’ she said.
I was hesitant, but took the leap and moved into a small flat near the town centre. I had loved the peace and quiet of the countryside, so didn’t think I’d like living in a town. But immediately I felt I was part of something. I’d walk my dogs and people would stop to chat; everyone was so friendly.
At first, I saw Brooke a lot, but I wanted to become more independent. I was nervous about going out on my own, but grew in confidence and started making friends. At one event, I met a lovely woman, and we now have girls’ nights every Friday. I’d never done anything like that before, but I feel 10 years younger.
When I felt more settled, I started working on my business. I built my own website advertising housekeeping, tidying, dog walking and – my biggest passion – catering. I started cooking for dinner parties and events, and helping locals tidy up, which I absolutely love.
I thought I’d be slowing down for a cosy life in Hampshire, but I was living the life my ex-husband wanted, not doing what was best for me. Now, I’m so busy and savouring every moment: I realise that life can begin again at any age.
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