Don’t worry – true love can take time
TALKING TO YOUR BABY
JUST because your baby doesn’t understand what you’re saying yet doesn’t mean you shouldn’t talk to them.
As well as being the best way to help infants start to understand language, the sound of a parent’s voice can help soothe baby and give mums an avenue to express their emotions or simply talk about day-to-day activities, and it’s definitely a good way to help mums bond with their baby.
And it doesn’t just have to be
An NCT expert and life coach explain to
that bonding with your baby may not happen immediately – but there are easy ways to boost it talking. “Another way to feel closer to your baby could be through boosting communication by reading them a storybook, singing songs, or by simply talking to them about what you’re doing as you go about your day,” advises Amy.
SKIN-TO-SKIN CONTACT
“IF mums feel they’re struggling to bond, they could try spending time with their baby cuddling skin-to skin,” suggests Amy.
“Massaging baby or taking baths together may also help.” And remember that simply stroking your baby can help calm them, which might help if you’re struggling to bond because your baby is so fractious.
USING A SLING
THE NCT suggests going for a walk with your baby in a sling, and talking to your little one as you walk, describing what you see. As well as the fresh air being good for you both, the physical closeness and communication will help strengthen the bonding process.