How To Talk To Someone Who Doesn’t Trust The Science

Debating anyone who’s resolutely opposed to the mainstream consensus is frustrating, but there are ways to make the conversation more productive

Don’t talk. Listen

Actually listen (ie, more than watching your friend’s mouth move while waiting for your turn to talk). This isn’t always easy, but it’s essential to understanding their perspective. Not everyone who is vaccine hesitant, for example, is a hardcore conspiracy theorist. There’s a vast range of viewpoints.

Express empathy

Don’t mock them, and don’t just throw a mountain of facts at them. Try to get a sense of what information would help

them feel better about the issue. Ask about their sticking points and recognise that they may have legitimate reasons for mistrusting the relevant institutions.

Find common ground

Perhaps it is mutual concern for the safety of family members or frustration about the uncertainty of emerging science. And use your own stories – such as a positive experience with vaccination – to support your perspective.

Play the long game

Providing credible information and highlighting the rhetorical tricks used to push misinformation can make a difference. But it’s rare for someone to change their mind right in front of you.

Humans are stubborn. But, over time, your discussion might begin to have an impact. Be patient.