IS YOUR MISSUS HER Veronika says… (Shock new
SOMETIMES you have to fake. It protects a man’s feelings.
Guys try really hard and it means a lot to them to think they’re doing well. The last thing they want is for a girl to tell them they’re shit.
I had an ex who was really keen and energetic. He used to finish quickly, before I had a chance to climax, but I would just pretend.
After a while he started blowing my mind. He would throw me on the bed, bend me over and f**k me so hard and fast.
He would not have had the confidence to get like that if I had constantly put him down. BAD NEWS lads, a whopping four in five women admit to FAKING their orgasms!
A new study has revealed that rampant playacting – like the famous restaurant scene with Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally (top left) – is infesting our beds.
Because while most lads are boasting about their sexual prowess down the pub, their conquests have really been feigning their quivering orgasms.
Researchers for The Journal of Sexual Archives surveyed 481 females who were sexually active but not in serious relationships.
And in a crushing blow to blokes the world over, 80 per cent of those asked admitted they often pretended to climax.
When asked why they felt the need to lie, the top reason given by women was ‘altruistic deceit’ – to protect the man’s feelings.
In second place was fear and insecurity. Wanting the sex to be a positive experience, rather than a negative one.
Third was faking it in order to end the sex session.
Finishing high up the list, though, was another shocking revelation.
A total of 13% said they faked in order to create an ‘elevated arousal’.
The ‘fake it till you make it’ theory suggests that if you act out the thing you want to happen, sometimes it will.
A top sexual psychologist revealed: “By re-enacting the lead-up to a real orgasm – breathing faster, making noise, moving your hips, tensing your muscles – you might just push yourself over the threshold to the point where orgasm becomes involuntary.”
We caught up with three saucy glamour babes to find out if they’d ever lied about coital bliss: