Wife having baby has given me sexual blues

I HAVE just discovered that my wife is having an affair – with another WOMAN – and is planning to leave me.

After 10 years together I thought all was OK, but I’m beginning to think that it’s all been a sham and she’s always been a dyke.

The funny thing is, our sex life has always been brilliant. Over the years we’ve tried everything – sex toys, role-playing and stuff.

I remember one holiday where we went straight to our hotel room and ripped each other’s clothes off. We started with a spot of mutual masturbation, oral in the 69-position, doggy-style action and even a bit of anal.

After we’d both climaxed several times and we got dressed and went for something to eat , but we were soon too horny to eat and went straight back up to our room, stripped off and jumped in the sack for sex toy fun. It was like that all week. Perfect.

I have tried talking to my wife about her lesbian secret, but she just doesn’t want to know. What can I do? MY fella used to be a keen rugby player until injury forced him out. Some of his club’s wives and girlfriends tookup the game and formed a team. I got involved when my fella said he’d coach the girls.

After our first game he came up with the amazing suggestion that I try a bit of lesbo action with two team-mates he said were gay.

He said he’d watch through a hole he’d drilled in the changing room from the men’s side. I was astounded but in the elation of our win that day I agreed and hung back in the changing room where the two were enjoying a prolonged victory embrace together.

I slipped between them and the three of us started swapping kisses and very soon our shorts were on the floor. We rubbed one another’s breasts before fingering each other to a climax.

The girls then used their tongues on my pussy to bring me off again. My bloke said he’d recorded the whole thing and on screen at home it got him so excited he shot his load and was useless in bed later. But I think I now prefer women anyway. Will I tire of lesbo sex?

DM, South Wales I’M 25 and married two years, but since our baby was born three months ago I hardly ever get a shag.

When we first met up she was always horny. On our first date we were snogging down a back alley when she dropped to her knees to suck me off.

We had our first shag in my car the following night and soon I was getting it every night.

We were adventurous and got a big kick out of copying porno techniques.

I remember one wild night when she suddenly produced handcuffs and secured my wrists to the bedhead. She spread my legs and wanked me off with every type of glove she had, rubber, leather, cotton, woollen – I couldn’t stop coming.

But now she doesn’t want to do anything. Is it alright if I start looking around for sex?

BG, North London

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