Young love’s pal is keen on me too
Dear Kelly,
MY partner is a top class girl and we have the best relationship ever.
I am a 45-year-old guy and have been with her for seven months. She’s 10 years younger than me but I’ve kept myself fit and our sex life is fantastic. Honestly, I’ve done more in the bedroom since I’ve been with her than in all the relationships I’ve had in the past up till her, it would take too long to reel off the sort of things we’ve done together.
I have had bad relationships in the past and she is a real breath of fresh air for me.
I met her friends for the first time about a month ago and they seemed quite sweet, though of course their talk was of things I didn’t quite get. I did get the impression, though, that my girl had been telling them about me and her and our bedroom antics.
The problem is, I thought one of them was trying it on with me. I ignored it and when I saw her pals again last week this girl made it quite clear that she was interested.
I am flattered and tempted but I would never do that and I am really keen to tell my girl, but I don’t want to cause any trouble with her friends. Jake, Kent
Kelly says…
I THINK you need to tell her. Her friend shouldn’t be doing this, it’s not a friendly thing to do. Or, you could get stuck in and pray you get away with it.
Dear Kelly,
I HAVE been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are getting on really well. We have a great relationship and the sex is great.
It’s surprising really because the two of us come from completely different backgrounds. He had a really privileged upbringing, whereas I did not – I was brought up by my mum on an estate in a part of the city that’s always been known as being rough.
He drove me out into the country a week or so ago to his family’s home and I met his mother for the first time.
It was not the pleasant and happy experience I had hoped it would be. She completely looked down on me and made it clear that she didn’t want me to be with her son. And when he was out of earshot she made really nasty remarks about how she’d hoped her son would have better taste.
I am tempted to tell him, but I am worried that this may cause a row, either between us or him and his mother. What should I do for the best?
Laura, London
Kelly says…
IF the sex is still good and you get on well with your fella, forget it – it’s her problem, not yours.