Is it time to confess?
I’m in love with my best friend. We’ve been mates over 20 years and it’s only recently that I’ve realised he’s the kindest, funniest man I’ve ever met. I don’t think he feels the same way, but I need to know for sure. Should I tell him and risk it all? Carly, Leeds
Pick Me Up! YES reader Georgia from Brighton says:
Of course you should! What if he feels the same way? Then you’ll have hit the jackpot. You’d be with a guy you fancy and who is actually your best friend. If he doesn’t feel the same way, there’s no way he would throw away two decades of friendship over it.
Pick Me Up! NO reader Rosy from Stoke-on-trent says:
You already admit you don’t think he feels the same way, so why risk ruining the brilliant friendship you have? Be honest. You’d know by now if he liked you in that way and there’s a big chance that things will never be the same if you confess. Treasure him as a mate and look for someone else.