Pick Me Up! reader Debby from Basingstoke says:
There’s going to be difficult times ahead and you’re going to have to learn to compromise. It sounds like your ex has moved out so doesn’t see the kids as much, and I think it’s great that he’s suggested having them rather than taking the chance to party with his new girlfriend! Work out a way to divide the time. Memories are made every day, not just on December 25th.