Should I tell him I made a mistake?
Iwas unfaithful and my devastated boyfriend broke it off with me. He’s with someone else now – but I love him, and I want him back. Should I tell him?
YES Pick Me Up! reader Chris, from Derby says:
You won’t ever move on from this unless you tell him how you feel. But be warned – this time, it’s likely that you’ll get hurt. Have you thought about what it will feel like if he says he doesn’t want to be with you? There’s quite a high chance he won’t feel the same way about you if he has a new partner. By all means, admit to him that you still have feelings but don’t expect everything to be perfect just because you do.
NO Pick Me Up! reader Em, from Helston says:
There was a reason you cheated on your ex and it’s possible that your relationship will never heal from it. Why hurt him further by potentially ruining things with someone he’s happy with? If you love him, let him enjoy his new relationship.
I think this is the case of wanting something you can’t have. Learn from it, and leave him be.