Helpful hints for family life

Alternative date ideas to build connection

From climbing to star-gazing, there are lots of ways you can enjoy a date without ending up in a bar, Gemma Bradley discovers.

We asked dating and relationship experts to suggest interesting dates outside of the pub.

1. A walking tour

In the dark times of lockdown, walking dates became the norm, but they can feel like an interview if you don’t click instantly. A walking tour is a good way to stimulate conversation. Founder of Love Collective Global, Sarah Louise Ryan, says: ‘When you create a focus on an activity, singles take the pressure off dating and create an experience for themselves.’

2. A cooking class

If you both enjoy a particular kind of food, taking a cooking class together could be a special date. Ryan says: ‘Something such as a cooking class will enable both parties to see how each other connects and communicate with others.’

3. Star Gazing

Star-gazing together can open up new, interesting conversation topics – and it can be very budget friendly too, as staring at the night sky comes free. Add in a picnic and perhaps even a bottle of wine, and you’ve got yourself a memorable date.

4. Comedy club

Tina Wilson, Relationship Expert and Founder of dating app Wingman suggests sharing laughs by attending a comedy club – and even taking part if you’re feeling brave – since ‘this one is a great way to see if you have the same sense of humour’.

7. Go to a pottery-making class or a kiln room

There are many affordable classes dotted around the country aimed at beginners, and it is an activity that will keep you talking and likely laughing. Founder of The Vida Consultancy, Rachel Maclynn says: ‘Some of the best dates are when two people engage in an activity neither have tried before, as the novelty lends itself to a form of teamwork.’