The three types of arguments

Understanding what type of argument you’re having can help you work out how to resolve it. Every time an argument sparks, consider whether it’s a head, heart or hands disagreement…

HEAD: WHAT IS TRUE? This is when an argument can be settled by data or evidence, whether it can be objectively verified as true or false. This type can sometimes be easy to resolve – like looking something up – or hard, because everyone has their own version of ‘truth’.

HEART: WHAT IS MEANINGFUL?

An argument based on personal taste, preferences, values and judgement calls that can only be determined within oneself. The resolution to this type of argument requires empathy and understanding.

HANDS: WHAT IS USEFUL?

A disagreement that can only be settled with some form of test, or by waiting to see how things play out. To resolve it, you’ll need to put something into practice and revisit it later.