Should men face jail for emotional bullying?

THE idea men should face five years in jail for emotionally bullying their wives (Mail) is unjust to men. We’re told 2.5 million men are also abused. Women’s Aid has campaigned for this legislation, but will women also be imprisoned for up to five years? Men are less likely to talk about their torture. Women perpetrators often invoke their mothers and children to support their behaviour. I was, many years ago, an emotionally and mentally tortured wife, twice over, and was fortunate to come out the other side a much stronger person. It is not percentages that matter — neither men nor women should be trapped in such a situation.

CECILY HEDGES, Llangrannog, Dyfed. Sarah Vine is lucky not to have been affected by the awful, crafty behaviour of an emotional bully. i’m still married after decades of this living hell. i don’t even try to discuss the problem with family or friends as i know they wouldn’t believe me — and the police wouldn’t, either. he’s such a kind, nice man who would do anyone a favour — except change, for me, the only person in this world he treats badly. i’m not in a position to leave him due to ill health and wish i had many years ago, but with two young children it was difficult.

Name and address supplied. MANY people will have found Sarah Vine’s ill-thought-out comments regarding new domestic abuse legislation (Mail) offensive. I fell victim to this vile behaviour by a man I truly loved. Whatever led to the change in him manifested itself in low-level insults and controlling behaviour. It took me several years to pluck up the courage to leave. Those who question the usefulness of this law are making those belittled at home doubt themselves even more. It’s necessary to protect and empower thousands of women and men who are powerless, thanks to controlling partners.

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