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Yes, it felt strange – but so wonderful that someone who’d passed away could give this to me

From the medical marvel who’ll pave way for British women within weeks...

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EVERY new parent looks in awe at their longedfor baby. In the case of Fabiana Amorim de Lima and Claudio Santos the birth of Luisa was nothing short of a miracle. For we can reveal that Fabiana, 34, is the mother who became the first in the world to give birth using a dead woman’s womb. To look at baby Luisa today – a happy, healthy girl with beautiful features and huge brown eyes – there is no clue as to her extraordin­ary journey into the world.

But the implicatio­ns of her birth – using a transplant­ed womb from a deceased donor’s body – will be profound.

Performed in a Brazilian hospital, the breakthrou­gh paves the way for British surgeons to replicate the pioneering procedure within a matter of weeks. It will give much-needed hope to women who face the ultimate obstacle to motherhood.

Mrs Amorim de Lima, who was born without a womb, had an overwhelmi­ng desire to ‘generate a baby herself’ – despite the grave risks of the unproven technique.

Her 33-year-old husband desperatel­y tried to dissuade her from going through with it after being told she could die.

‘When my wife discovered that she didn’t have a womb, she started to research and find out more about the condition,’ he said.

‘We heard that a woman in Sweden had had a womb transplant from a live family member, but it never crossed our mind that this could be something available to us. We found a page on Facebook created by women with the same problem.

‘So we began to take part in this same closed group and got to know other women who had the same syndrome. It was great to be able to share our experience­s and worries with others going through it.

‘It was through this group that we discovered that the Hospital da Clinicas in Sao Paulo was looking for women without a womb to take part in a medical experiment. They didn’t explain much at the beginning, but straight away we volunteere­d and became one of the couples in the running.

‘Ten couples from this group were selected, then after many tests found out we were one of the three couples who had been chosen.’

Luisa, a curly-haired bundle of energy now learning to crawl, turns one next Saturday – a milestone her parents once only dreamed of.

‘She’s a normal baby who has developed normally,’ says her mother. ‘She breastfeed­s, she plays. It’s tiring, it’s hard work, but none of that comes close to how marvellous it is to have my daughter, and to know that I generated and carried her. There is no other way of describing her, she is our little miracle.’

Mrs Amorim de Lima, a psychologi­st who worked in human resources, learned she did not have a womb weeks before she was due to get married. ‘I was 28 and I’d never had a period in my whole life,’ she said. ‘But I’d never gone to a doctor to find out why.

‘When I decided to get married I thought it was time to find out what the problem was, and after lots of tests we discovered that, although I had eggs, I had no womb.

‘There was no chance I’d ever be able to get pregnant. Back then we’d never even heard of womb transplant­s. Even so, we decided to continue with the wedding and our life together. My husband wanted to adopt, but my heart wasn’t open to that. I wanted to generate my own baby, inside of me.

‘It was important to me to have that experience, to get pregnant, to see my child in an ultrasound, to carry her, to feel her inside of me and to give birth. It was everything I wanted and it consumed me. I was prepared to take whatever risks were necessary to make it happen.

‘It was a slightly strange feeling at first, knowing that I was carrying the womb of another person, who had now passed away. But at the same time it was emotional, knowing that someone who had already gone could do something so wonderful for me.’

Mrs Amorim de Lima was always positive. ‘I was absolutely certain it would work out,’ she said. ‘I was never worried about anything, and I wasn’t for one moment afraid of the surgery.’

THE couple live on a dreary, rundown street in a poor district of Guarulhos, a satellite city of Sao Paulo, in south-eastern Brazil. Their tiny one-bedroom flat is above the home of her parents.

On the corner of the street is a makeshift car wash, and a few streets away on the busy main road locals in shorts and flip-flops mingle among market traders selling fresh produce and live pigs and chickens. Their home has a small living room with two sofas, a bedroom and a kitchen. Their sparse living room is adorned with photos of their daughter.

Mr Santos, an insurance salesman for the bank Bradesco, said after hearing of the risks of the surgery he tried to convince his wife to adopt instead.

He said: ‘They told us they would have to connect veins and arteries, that it was very intricate and there could be many complicati­ons, and that included the risk to Fabiana’s own life. I talked with her about it. My heart was open to adoption, but she was convinced that it was what she wanted. Her dream was to generate her own child, and to achieve it she would do anything.

‘So we entered into an agreement to go through with it, aware of the risks, including to her own life. She managed to convince me to let her go through with it.’ The couple married in September 2012 after meeting as students at university. Mrs Amorim de Lima said the years after her medical diagnosis were difficult as she tried to come to terms with the devastatin­g news.

‘The first year and a half were the worst,’ she said. ‘I hit rock bottom, I was really bad. I thought that I was the worst person in the world, that I had been punished by God. How could a woman be born without a womb?

‘But we had two options, to continue to be troubled by the situation, or to look for a solution. And we decided to look for a solution. That was the best decision I ever made, because if not my baby girl wouldn’t be here today.’ They started to read up on her syndrome, Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser, and joined a group of other women in the Sao Paulo region living with the same disorder.

In 2015, the group was approached

by researcher­s from Sao Paulo’s Hospital das Clinicas, looking for candidates for the first American surgical trial of uterine transporta­tion. Of ten couples who came forward, three were chosen to take part – and Fabiana and Claudio were the first. The hospital paid for their treatment.

First, she had IVF treatment, resulting in eight fertilised eggs which were cryopreser­ved (cooled below freezing point), before undergoing the womb transplant four months later after the donor, who died following a stroke, was identified. One of the fertilised eggs was defrosted and implanted into the donor womb. ‘It sounds crazy, but from the moment they called us to talk it through, I was absolutely certain it would work out,’ said Mrs Amorim de Lima. ‘I was never worried about anything, and I wasn’t for one moment afraid of the surgery.

‘I was so determined. I wanted a baby, come what may. Why was I so sure it would work out, when every other try had failed? Because my faith is very strong. I prayed a lot. I asked God to realise my dream. And because of that I knew nothing would go wrong.

‘But it wasn’t easy. Those two years were a rollercoas­ter with so many ups and downs.

‘The worst was the emotional exhaustion and the waiting six months for a donor. Knowing that a family had lost someone they loved was terrible, but at the same time our prayers of finding a womb had been answered.’

SHe spent 11 hours in surgery, where surgeons plumbed in the organ, connecting veins, arteries, ligaments and vaginal canals.

‘We had to a sign a form saying we were aware of the risks. I spent the whole night awake, waiting and praying. I only relaxed when it was over and she was back in her room,’ said her husband. All the Roman Catholic couple know about the donor is she was 45 and had had children.

‘I really wanted to find out more about her,’ said Mrs Amorim de Lima. ‘We even tried to find the person’s family to know more, to show them what a marvellous thing she had done, but we ended up leaving it. We didn’t know if it would make things worse for them or not.

‘The doctors assured us that the baby doesn’t take on anything of the donor mother, nothing. Her structure is all mine and her father’s.

‘Pregnancy is a traumatic time for any mother, because there are so many things that can go wrong and everything seems so fragile. And for me it was just like that but a thousand times worse.

‘I thought I’d never feel as anxious as during the six months we were waiting for a donor to appear, but being pregnant took it to another level entirely. Although I felt sure that everything would be OK, it didn’t stop me worrying when I had a bad turn or when I hadn’t felt her move for a while. My husband was constantly checking my belly, he worried much more than I did.

‘Very few people know about this whole experience, or that I don’t have a womb. We only told a few members of our family, and one or two close friends. You can count on one hand the number of people who know. We just didn’t want people to know and give them reason to talk about me.

‘We baptised her recently, we felt it was important to do that before her first birthday. But we couldn’t tell people just how much of a miracle she really is to us.’

Thirty people, including researcher­s and doctors, were present at Luisa’s birth last December at the Hospital das Clinicas.

Mr Santos said: ‘The real fear was because this was new, nobody had ever done this before. So my fear was that something went wrong and something worse would happen, and that Fabiana wouldn’t leave the surgery room alive.

‘I was really scared during those hours of surgery, I paced up and down outside, every few minutes asking if it was going OK. And in the hours after the surgery too, because her body could have rejected the womb at any moment.

‘I was constantly apprehensi­ve through the whole process. To be honest I only stopped worrying after the baby came out.

‘The whole time we lived under that pressure, is it going to turn out alright? Will the womb punish our baby? Will she be healthy? each consultati­on we went to, each biopsy and ultrasound, there was a different fear.

‘After Luisa was born I breathed a sigh of relief for her, but my wife still had to go though a serious operation. She had just had a C-section and now she also had to have a hysterecto­my to remove the womb. So I was the first person to hold Luisa, and the first to feed her.

‘We do want to have more children but not in the same way, I can’t imagine this being available to us again. So we have decided that the next child we have will be adopted. I had always wanted to adopt, rather than Fabiana have to go through what she did. I want to tell Luisa everything when she’s old. I’ll tell her about her mum’s bravery and determinat­ion, of everything she went through to bring her into the world. So many trips to hospital, more than 100 times we went there. every month she had to have a blood test and biopsy, hundreds of conversati­ons with doctors and psychologi­sts.

‘It’s such a beautiful story, and we are so grateful for God’s help and all the profession­als who made it possible. I don’t think there are many couples who would be able to go through all we did.

‘I will tell her like that, in a very positive way, but I won’t hide from her any of the details, even the fact that she grew in the womb of another woman who had died.

‘I’m keeping all the newspaper stories so she can read them one day. I am sure that, more than anything, she will be really proud of her parents, for them having gone through all this, and especially of her mother who put her life at risk to have her.’

MRS Amorim de Lima added: ‘During the first three months I had the same worries as any mother, especially the fear of miscarriag­e. And I was always worried about whether she would be born with any health problems because of the many medicines I was taking. I was taking 14 different medicines per day, including lots of immunosupp­ressant drugs.

‘I had this fear that one of the medicines would cause a problem with my baby. There was one time when two hours passed without her moving at all, and I became very scared. I was calmer towards the end than I was at the beginning, and the doctors reassured me that the medicines wouldn’t case problems.

‘I also have a strong faith which kept me positive. Thank God my baby was born perfect.’

The couple want their joy to inspire others. ‘We hope that many other couples who think they will never have children will soon be able to experience this feeling, too,’ said Mr Santos.

‘I’ll never forget the moment she came into the world. The paediatric­ian showed her to me quickly then rushed her away to do tests. Then she brought her back and said “Congratula­tions, there’s nothing wrong with her, she’s perfect”. That’s when I started crying. I cried for a long time.’

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Baby makes three: Fabiana Amorim, 34, with husband Claudio Santos, 33, and daughter Luisa
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