I split from my ex the day we were meant to move in together
ELOISE’S VERDICT: 8/10
LIKED? How much we laughed together
REGRETS? None
COFFEE OR CAB? Coffee
DATING PAST
I’ve had two long-term relationships. I met one boyfriend while I was at university and I was with my most recent partner for four years. We split the day we were meant to move in together because I wanted to get married and have children and he didn’t. I’ve been single for a year and would like to find love, but dating apps aren’t for me. I believe in getting to know someone in the flesh.
PRE-DATE NERVES?
I was nervous; I’ve never been on a blind date before! My younger brother was the only one who knew I was going on the date because he suggested I apply. We live together and are close.
FIRST IMPRESSIONS?
Joe was at the bar waiting for me when I arrived and gave me such a warm welcome. he was dressed smartly in a jacket, with a shirt and dark jeans. Physically he is attractive, with dark blond hair and stubble. Joe suggested a drink before dinner to put me at ease.
EASY TO TALK TO?
We didn’t stop chatting. We covered everything from my love of the theatre, to the novel I’m working on, to relationships. We have a lot in common. We even both went for lobster ravioli to start followed by salmon.
Joe has led an impressive professional life — he’s worked in theatre production and is now a landscape gardener, but has also returned to university because he wants to work with animal charities. I like that commitment in a man.
EMBARRASSING MOMENTS?
No, But if there had been, I’d have rolled with them. We’d have just laughed about it.
DID SPARKS FLY?
While he’s a great guy with a fantastic personality, there wasn’t any romantic inclination on my part. I’d love to be friends with him. We did swap numbers and Joe texted me to make sure I got home safely. he suggested we go to the theatre and I’d like to do that as friends.
DID YOU KISS?
No, But I was greeted with a big warm hug at the start of the evening, and when we went for a drink after we’d finished eating, Joe offered me his jacket because it was chilly.
WHAT DO YOU THINK HE THOUGHT OF YOU?
I hope he thought I was friendly and easy to chat to.
WOULD YOUR FAMILY LIKE HIM?
ABSOLUTELY, they’d think he’s a lovely guy. Joe is a true gent.