Young, Welsh and Black: The stories of four people and life growing up in Wales
The issue of racism in Wales has been highlighted by Black Lives Matter protests across the country. Joshua Knapman spoke to four people about their experiences of growing up black in Wales
THE summer of 2020 has seen a massive shift in the way people in Wales think about equality.
Thousands turned out for Black Lives Matter protests and marches, which were held in numerous locations, including Cardiff, Bridgend, Merthyr Tydfil, Aberdare and Newport.
People are reading books and asking questions, learning what’s appropriate and generally trying to educate themselves to just be better.
If the Black Lives Matter movement has highlighted anything in the UK, it’s that racism exists in many forms, whether it’s implicit or explicit.
According to Stats Wales, Wales has a population of 3.1 million, and roughly 186,600 are Bame (black, Asian and minority ethnic).
That’s a higher number than the whole population of Wales’ third largest city, Newport.
But growing up as a black person in Wales can see challenges arise that not everyone has to face.
Some people might not even be aware of the subtle racism that exists – more than one person we spoke to called them “micro-aggressions” – but there are issues faced by people in the black community that form barriers to the simplest aspects of their everyday lives.
■ “It’s microagressions most of the time and it’s really hard to explain them to people,” said 34-year-old Liana Stewart.
The freelance producer and director, who has made a few powerful short films on the impact of George Floyd’s killing has had on the people in the UK, added: “Often you can’t prove it, you just know.”
She gives an example of a time she was on work experience in Wales, where she had clearly been wronged, but felt it wouldn’t be right to call out the person.
Liana, who now spends her time between Cardiff and London, said: “This woman was calling a name, and getting closer to me. I realised the name she was calling was the name of the only other black person in the building – which was not me.
“I didn’t turn around, because it’s not my name, and because I didn’t turn around she grabbed my arm and was like ‘I’m talking to you.’
“I was like: ‘Oh, that’s not my name,’ and instead of apologising – which is what you’d do to anyone – she said: ‘Well you all look so alike.’
“And that is awful to say to someone – she had short hair, I had long hair, for one.
“You can’t say anything either because you’re the minority and if you say anything, you’re the one who is the aggressor.
“If I had said something, she would’ve got upset and she’d be the victim and I wouldn’t. That’s how it always plays – you’re the problem.
“I never told anyone, apart from the other black person who I was mistaken for. You just laugh at it. You have to laugh otherwise you’d cry all the time.
“It’s something that happens all the time.
“You feel like you have the weight of every black person on your shoulders. In every job, in every situation. You feel like you have to represent everyone else. So you’re conscious of that.
“So you want to make sure you’re extra nice, you’re extra polite, because you feel like you need to be.”
Growing up in Butetown, Cardiff, Liana said she wasn’t really aware of racism until she was older, because the area was so multicultural.
She said: “I didn’t face any racism growing up - I actually wasn’t aware there were issues with the way people looked and their skin colour because I grew up in a really multicultural community. “So when I first learned about racism at school I was horrified - I had no idea about slavery or anything.
“I went to Mount Stuart Primary School, and we had a black headteacher, Betty Campbell, and she also lived in the community.
“She taught us black history, which wasn’t being taught anywhere else as far as I know in any other primary schools in Wales – it wasn’t part of the curriculum in Wales.
“But she enforced it because she had so many minority kids in her school. In fact I would say you didn’t feel like you were a minority in that school – or in my community – because everyone was different.
“I never felt like a minority at all until I started working.
“A lot of people, where I grew up, would use different addresses, because they felt other people were prejudiced against people from Butetown – this was before the gentrification. “
At 16, Liana left Butetown and moved to Grangetown. After going to uni in Newport, she then left for London to pursue her career.
But she was much younger when she first experienced racism personally.
She said: “My first racist experience was actually when I was nine, in town. There was a rugby match on and someone didn’t see me in the back of a taxi and he just said to the driver ‘get the n ***** out of the car.’
“I knew it was bad but I’d never experienced that before and didn’t realise how bad it was.
“That was an adult man. shocking.
“The taxi driver didn’t take the money and apologised and that’s really when I realised it must have been a really bad thing.”
It was
■ Nathan Palmer is a fashion designer in Penarth. He grew up in Canton, Cardiff, but says his experience was quite different to Liana’s, who grew up in multicultural Butetown.
Growing up, Nathan said he constantly faced questions about where he was from, even after explaining he lived in Canton and was born in a nearby Cardiff hospital.
He said: “It seems like a general introduction. People ask ‘are you from Africa?’ And I say why would you assume I’m from Africa, my heritage is the Caribbean. It’s all down to education really, and perspective of where a black person would automatically be from.”
He says he still receives these sorts of questions now.
“Growing up being black in Wales, it feels like people automatically feel safer if they know I’m Welsh. Like stereotypes are eliminated.
“It’s not a nice way to live. Just so the person you’re engaging with can feel at ease with you.”
Nathan believes some positive things have come from the aftermath of the tragic murder of George Floyd in the US. He said: “It has highlighted that there are so many types of racism.
“Obviously you have the racism that’s blatant and in your face and then you have corporate racism, there’s still racism in schools. For me it’s worked out to be positive but it’s come about the wrong way.
“It’s had to come from the worst of circumstances.”
Nathan said his line of work is based on merit but generally there are “glass ceilings” in place for black people.
“You have to work harder,” he explains.
“I’m lucky that I’m in an industry in which I get judged, but judged on my work. It is unfair as a black person that it’s not always the case. It’s just what I’m used to.”
But it’s not just in his career he’s had to work hard. Nathan explains that after leaving a fairly multicultural primary school, he faced issues – that he couldn’t really talk to anyone about – in high school.
He said that when he went to high school, that’s when he “could identify that racism was a thing.”
Nathan said: “I was one of only two or three black kids in the whole school and you’d get highlighted for absolutely anything. Good or bad.
“If you had done something good, it was a case of ‘Oh he’s doing it for the brothers’ even though there were no other ‘brothers’ there.”
When asked who would be saying that – surely not the teachers – Nathan replied: “Do you know what, you’d be surprised by some of the remarks the teachers would make.
“But they would do it in jest. And because the teachers were doing it, the pupils found it acceptable to do – so what do you do?
“There’s not much you can do, half the time you have to bite your lip.”
“People will say, ‘it’s just a joke, we’re not trying to be offensive’ but of course it’s offensive. If it’s making me feel a certain way, it’s not good for me is it?
“And then I’ve got these messages growing up, right the way through life, even when I’ve grown up.”