Stockport Express

‘The hospice has given me a reason to continue to live, I’d be lost without their support’

- WRITTEN BY BERNARD WHIPDAY An outpatient at The Being You Centre at St Ann’s Hospice

THIS Christmas I’d be lost without the support of St Ann’s Hospice. I am an outpatient at the St Ann’s Hospice Being You Centre.

I can no longer walk due to breathing difficulti­es, and I have chronic obstructiv­e pulmonary disease (COPD) at Stage 4 end-of-life.

I worked at a rubber factory for 18 years, and my doctor suspected that the fumes from the factory had caused this damage to my lungs.

It fell to my wife Eileen to provide 24-hour care for me at home, and without her, I wouldn’t have survived this far.

I couldn’t do anything for myself and felt totally useless. I can’t thank her enough.

And I’ll be honest and admit that before starting my treatment at St Ann’s last year, I felt I could no longer go on. I used to wake up and wonder why I was still here.

I now attend sessions at the Being You Centre at St Ann’s at least twice a week, and I enjoy them so much. I’d come every day if I could.

St Ann’s has been a godsend for me and my family. Now, I get up in the morning and can’t wait to go to the hospice in my wheelchair. It means so much to me.

St Ann’s Hospice has given me a reason to continue to live. I’d be lost without their support, and I know plenty of patients who feel just like me.

The hospice provides all of their services free of charge, but this wouldn’t be possible without the kind donations from our community of supporters.

As well as counsellin­g, I have complement­ary therapy to help me relax, and physiother­apy to ease my breathless­ness. I also have occupation­al therapy to help manage my fatigue.

Fundraisin­g is essential to the running of the hospice, and your donation, no matter how big or small, is invaluable to St Ann’s and the families they’re caring for this Christmas.

Just £5 could help to stock the drinks trolley so inpatients and their families can enjoy a hot drink or festive tipple together this Christmas Day.

£30 could pay for a bereavemen­t session with St Ann’s specialist team, for someone who is struggling with their first Christmas since losing their loved one.

I can’t put into words the impact of the physical and mental health support I’ve received at St Ann’s.

Joining social and support groups has also had an incredible effect on me, allowing me to share my experience­s and providing valuable coping mechanisms. I’ve formed connection­s at St Ann’s, and friendship­s I’ll cherish.

On my latest visit to St Ann’s, I brought a £60 donation from my family and friends.

I’m lucky to have 20 grandchild­ren and 10 great-grandchild­ren, and as a family, we do our best to fundraise for St Ann’s.

St Ann’s is there for me, and has been here for our community for over 50 years.

But without sufficient funds, others like me won’t receive the help I do. St Ann’s is like a family, but needs community support to keep its doors open.

This Christmas, please donate anything you can to help St Ann’s.

It would mean so much to people like me who would be lost without this wonderful place.

Your donation makes a difference. To donate today please call St Ann’s Hospice on 0161 4983631 or visit www.sah. org.uk/christmasd­onate.

St Ann’s Hospice provides holistic care to patients with life-limiting illnesses – comprising inpatient care, day therapy and supportive outpatient services from its sites at Heald Green, Stockport and Little Hulton, Salford.

The teams at the hospice also provide a range of community and outreach services to patients, including care in the place they call home via a Hospice at Home service available in Salford and Trafford, the hospice’s Community Specialist Palliative Care Team in Salford, and the homelessne­ss palliative care service in Manchester.

A 24-hour telephone advice line is available to patients, carers and healthcare profession­als in Salford, Manchester, Trafford and Stockport.

Our hospice building in Heald Green is 150 years old and through our Build It Together appeal we hope to raise the final £2million we need to build a new hospice next door to our current building.

 ?? ?? ●●Bernard with wife Eileen
●●Bernard with wife Eileen

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