So stressed by his new car obsession

My partner insists on a new car every two years for the sake of his image. He says that this is non-negotiable.

Meanwhile, I’m struggling to pay for essential jobs that need doing around the home. I’m also dreading the winter bills. How can he stand to be so selfish?

Your partner needs a reality check. His ego needs to take a back seat because these are extraordinarily demanding times.

Draw up a list of everything

that needs paying for and insist on a calm, sit-down chat. Certain priorities need to be identified because you and he are a partnership.

Contact Jane at S Magazine, One Canada Square, Canary Wharf, London E14 5AP or email jane.ogorman@express.co.uk. Jane regrets that she cannot reply personally to your letters