Boyfriend’s brother is poisoning his family against me

Years ago, I dated my boyfriend’s brother. Now he’s telling his family bad stories about me, saying I’m not good enough for his brother. Most of the bad things I did were with him, though. What do I do? Most of us have done things we’d rather forget and it sounds like your ex-boyfriend doesn’t want any reminders of his own past.

What does his brother, your

current boyfriend, think? Is he willing to stand up for you? If your new boyfriend isn’t totally supportive, is it worth staying in this hostile environment?

Contact Jane at S Magazine, One Canada Square, Canary Wharf, London E14 5AP or email her at jane.ogorman@express.co.uk. Jane regrets that she cannot reply personally to your letters or emails.