Sex matters

How do I tame a lover who only likes risky sex? When we first got together, we were both in relationships and grabbed moments of passion in the office stationery cupboard and underground car park.

Now we’re both single, but she’s not interested in hotels or even my flat, insisting on increasingly dicey locations instead.

Your girlfriend sounds like a thrill-seeker who gets pleasure from the risk of being caught.

But you both play a dangerous game every time you fumble among the envelopes. What about your reputations and salaries? Isn’t CCTV an issue? I suggest you start being true to yourself before this unsustainable habit (inevitably) implodes. Sober up and take responsibility.