Sex matters

My boyfriend has never made me orgasm, so

I fib every time we go to bed together.

He demands a post-coital debrief: What did I think of that new move? Was that the best sex ever? The truth is that he’s enthusiastic but ineffective. I have more fun, on my own, with my sex toy.

Will the truth crush him? Surely it takes two to make a great sex life? What are you doing while he’s bouncing all over the bed?

Meet him halfway with some ideas, enthusiasm and passion of your own. Could your sex toy be introduced into the mix?

Ultimately, if you don’t love or respect him enough to stay, then plan your exit, but please don’t destroy his self-esteem on the way out.