Sex matters

My husband has been visiting a sex worker for massage and conversation. He stresses that he has never had full sex with her.

Apparently, she encourages him to chat, unburden and relax. This has been going on for five years and I only discovered the truth when his sister blurted it out. How am I meant to react?

No one would blame you for feeling betrayed. Not only has your husband kept a significant secret from you, but he’s spent cash and been intimate with another person.

Can he explain why he felt the need to engage this woman? Was he ever going to tell you the truth? Only you can decide if this is a divorcing matter. Give yourself all the time you need in order to think and process.