I feel cornered by my ex in a messy break-up

How can I definitively end things with my ex-boyfriend?

When we split up in August, we both agreed it was for the best. Our relationship had run out of steam and we’d stopped having sex. But now he rings me most days with funny stories and gossip. If

I fail to pick up, then he perseveres until I do.

He’s putting me under pressure; I feel awkward and cornered. I’m desperate not to hurt or humiliate him but I need to move on.

He has not suggested meeting up again, but I fear that might be next.

It’s highly likely that your ex is lonely and missing you. Old habits die hard. But if you’re determined the relationship is over and there is no going back, then you need to start being honest.

Hounding you on the phone isn’t fair. Jot down what you’re thinking and be ready for him the next time he makes contact. There’s no need to be rude but you must be firm, otherwise he won’t take you seriously.

Don’t be made to feel guilty – you’re entitled to a new life and your freedom.