Sunday People

THE PERFECT MATCH:

- By Rosaleen Fenton

BRIDE Emma Sparre-newman e-newman walked up the aisle in n a dazzling white strapless wedding ng gown to meet her groom – and saw he was wearing an identical outfit. utfit.

But Emma, 51, didn’t bat an eyelid. Partner Ian Newman, 52, had ad chosen the dress from the same shop – and even tried it on for her to get the thumbs-up. mbs-up.

Both wore high heels too. oo. The only difference was that Emma’s waist was taken in while Ian’s dress had extra ra padding.

And his ensemble was set off by a handlebar moustache.

“He looked amazing,” Emma ma says. “Over the last two years, Ian has dressed almost exclusivel­y in women’s clothing. hing.

“It would actually be odd d to see him in jeans and a T-shirt. It’s just not him.

“So when we discussed d marriage I expected we’d both wear a dress.

“I hadn’t imagined we’d ever wear the same outfit because we have e very different ideas about style.

“But actually I’m really glad we did – otherwise you might end up comparing who wore the nicest one. I think it t worked well.”

Fabulous

Punk musician Ian, 52, met Emma at a festival in 2014 but they only got together in 2016. On their first date – afternoon tea – he wore a black leather kilt and fetish boots.

Before their next date at his house

Emma says: “He warned me before I arrived that he liked being dressed more fabulously at home.

“I’d already seen him in a lot of velvet and lace jackets so I wasn’t sure what he meant.

“But when he opened the door he was dressed as a woman and introduced himself as Diane. So I shook his hand, gave him a hug and told Diane that he did look fabulous.”

Ian – who is heterosexu­al – had an inkling of his interest as a child but didn’t crossdress until 2011.

He chose the name Diane as it contains his name Ian so includes both sides of him.

Emma, whose dad was a vicar, was so relaxed that

Ian knew she was the one.

She said: “From being young we were used to meeting people from all walks of life who were welcomed in our home regardless of their circumstan­ces.

“It taught me everyone has their own story and you can’t judge a book by its cover. What’s inside counts.

“Clothing is not that important. Ian is a lovely, intelligen­t and warm person. It just wouldn’t matter to me what he wears.” The couple, from East Dulwich, South London, hadn’t planned to marry – until they booked a holiday to Las Vegas this year.

Emma said: “I was on the phone to Ian and I asked him if it was worth bringing a nice frock with me.

“He said, ‘Well you haven’t asked me to marry you.’ So I asked him and he said yes.” Emma’s family were thrilled. She said:

 ??  ?? WEDDING DRESSERS: Ian, Emma and guests WHITE FOR EACH OTHER: Ian and Emma in matching dress and high heels
WEDDING DRESSERS: Ian, Emma and guests WHITE FOR EACH OTHER: Ian and Emma in matching dress and high heels

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