MY BLOOD Bone marrow donor’s amazing 30 year bond with man he saved
THERE was a head-scratching moment when Martin Swales answered his front door and a priest handed him a letter.
The mystery was quickly solved. It contained a thank you note from someone whose life Martin had saved.
He knew his bone marrow had been given to someone called Jan and imagined it was a woman in Britain.
In fact the recipient was dad Jan Zemek 4,500 miles away in the US.
And Martin’s gift of life has led to an extraordinary 30-year bond between the pair, who are like blood brothers.
Jan named his second daughter Martina in honour of his hero and Martin is godfather to his third girl.
Retired welder Martin, 58, of Guisborough, North Yorks, said: “Donating bone marrow didn’t just save Jan’s life, it changed mine as well. The first time I met Jan, I put my arms around him and he hugged me back.
“It felt natural, like I was welcoming my brother. It feels like our two families have become one.”
Survivor
They each have three grown-up children and have visited each other for baptisms, graduations, and weddings. Martin recently went to Switzerland, where Jan lives with his family, to celebrate 30 years since the transplant and present his blood brother with a “Walk of Fame” plaque.
It includes the touching message: “Stood strong, fought hard, and won. You are a survivor.”
The men’s amazing and heartwarming story dates from 1986 when Martin joined the Anthony Nolan stem cell register after an appeal to save two girls living in the North East.
He was not a match for the girls but in 1989 was called by the register because he could be for Jan.
Martin said: “It was quite a shock because I’d pretty much forgotten about the register. They told me I was a possible match for someone and what was involved. I said yes straight away. I wanted to help if I could.”
Despite the discomfort, Martin gave bone marrow from his hip at a clinic in Harley Street that August. Doctors extracted it from inside his hip using a long needle. Today most donations are no more invasive than giving blood.
Martin spent two nights in hospital. He said: “It doesn’t take long but at the time I was suffering from sciatica so I think I found it a bit more painful than most. It was an uncomfortable journey home on the train.”anthony Nolan covered the cost of the trip.
Jan, a 27-year-old dad, was diagnosed with leukaemia in
1987. Initially doctors kept the news from him as no treatment was available in the Czech Republic, where he lived.
Jan said: “I was diagnosed one year after the Chernobyl tragedy, we’ve never known if that radiation was to blame for my cancer. I suddenly grew very tired, nobody knew the reason.
“I didn’t know how sick I was because the doctors wouldn’t tell me.
“My wife, who was then my girlfriend, went to the same doctors and they told her, ‘Don’t marry this guy, don’t have children with him. He is going to die in two years’.” But Radka ignored their warning and insisted on marrying Jan in 1987. His only hope was a bone marrow transplant. Weeks later he left for the US with his dad, who planned to be his donor.
Jan said: “A few months earlier, I read in the paper the opera singer José Carreras was diagnosed with a similar blood disease and was going to the same US centre for a transplant.”
They arrived with less than £40 in their pockets and discovered a transplant from his dad would give Jan only a 15 per cent chance of survival.
Instead doctors advised them to find a donor. It took two years and £10,000 to test potential donors before they found a perfect match in Martin.
By then Jan and Radka had become parents to their first daughter, Jana.
Jan needed to raise more than £100,000 to fund the transplant.
He said: “It was such a huge amount of money to raise but when you are dying you have no choice.
Crazy
“There were 12 rival local radio stations but they all got together to run a joint appeal, which they broadcast at the same time. It was incredible.”
Jan did a sponsored run, gave talks about his ordeal to church congregations to request donations, and wrote to celebrities, especially those with links to the Czech Republic.
Donald Trump’s ex-wife Ivana gave £1,000, as did One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest director Milos Forman.