Role-play with missus drives me to hookers!

Dear Stevie, I’M 45 and I’ve been pretty happily married for 20 years. I say “happily” but there’s a small problem. While I still have a healthy appetite for sex, the wife has gone off it and I’m lucky if I get my willy wet once a month.

In the early years she would happily suck me off whenever the mood took her – which was often.

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She loved nothing better than for me to jizz on her tongue and she’d eagerly gulp down my steaming hot ball brew.

Then I’d go down on her, nibbling all around her pussy- lips before giving my full attention to her swollen clit.

One of our favourite sessions involved her tying my hands and feet to the bedposts and blindfolding me. I never knew what to expect next. It could be champagne or ice cream poured over my bits – which she would then lick up.

But the role- play game we liked to play the best was the “hooker and punter”.

She would dress up as a total slut in black lacy undies, fishnet stockings and high heels and a short leather skirt.

Then I would drive her to a deserted industrial estate and she would get out and stand under a lamp while I drove round the block, pretending to be “looking for business”.

I’d pick her up and after negotiating a price I’d whisk her back to the house and give her £ 20 to suck me off – or £ 50 for full sex.

It was such a thrill peeling off her slutty clothes and shagging her every which way up.

Occasionally, I’d just take her up a back alley and push up her skirt and we’d f*** against the wall, which always made her squeal with delight.

These days, alas, sex has become boring, routine and rather infrequent.

Now I get my sex kicks from shagging prostitutes for real. I try to recreate the fun I used to have with the missus and using hookers certainly relieves my sexual frustrations.

My only worry is that I’m cheating on my wife, who in every other respect I’m still very happy with. Should I stop seeing the tarts?

SD, Surrey Stevie says… NOT if using hookers helps to keep your marriage together.

But try talking to your wife – she might genuinely miss the role- play stuff too, you know!